(*Of course, if you’re looking for more than ‘advice’, check out all the different ways the Speechy team can help you write & deliver a great speech. Or check out our new AI-powered team member, SpeechyAI.)
‘(Of course, if you’re looking for more than ‘advice’, check out Speechy’s bespoke speechwriting service. We also have a range of excellent speech templates that might be just what you need.)
(*Of course, if you’re looking for more than ‘advice’, check out our eulogy writing service or our eulogy template.)
(Of course, if you’re looking for more than ‘advice’, check out Speechy’s bespoke speechwriting service. We also have a range of excellent speech templates that might be just what you need.)
If you’re searching for “Mother of the Bride Speech Jokes,” you’re in the right place. Humour isn’t just allowed in your wedding speech – it’s essential. It helps you connect with the crowd, calm your nerves, and, most importantly, celebrate your daughter in a way that’s warm, witty, and truly personal.
As I often say in our workshops and in The Modern Couple’s Guide to Wedding Speeches, the best laughs come from honesty, not one-liners. So let’s ditch the cheesy gags and focus on how to get your guests smiling for all the right reasons.
Guests want to hear about your daughter -not some Pinterest-perfect version of a bride. Tell the truth, and make it oddly specific.
What quirky habits does she have? Strange passions? Underrated skills?
Maybe she knows every Nando’s spice level off by heart. Perhaps she’s a text-reply ninja who somehow answers before you’ve even hit send. Or maybe she winces at the sound of wine being poured – but happily drinks it anyway.
These little details are what make your speech stand out.
This is one of our golden rules at Speechy. Instead of saying your daughter is ‘funny’ or ‘kind,’ prove it.
“Don’t say she’s clumsy. Tell us about the time she accepted her graduation scroll with her gown tucked in her knickers.”
Props are fair game too. Show off her Blue Peter badge. Read her Year 3 school report. Let the audience see what makes her brilliant.
This classic comedy rule works because it gives rhythm and punch to your speech.
If you want to make a point – like that your daughter is forgetful – try a trio:
“This is the girl who lost her car in a multi-storey car park, accidentally resigned from the wrong job, and once spent 10 minutes chatting to Liam Neeson before realising he wasn’t who she thought he was.”
It’s simple. It’s effective. It works.
Involving the crowd makes your speech more engaging – and it gives people a buzz.
Before you write your speech, reach out to friends, flatmates, and family members. Ask for funny stories, charming quirks, and first impressions. You might uncover a gem.
“Apparently, when she first met her new in-laws, she accidentally called her mother-in-law ‘babe.’ Twice.”
Don’t try to pack in everything she’s ever done. Choose your best material – the stories that land, the jokes that pop.
Keep your speech to around 1,000 words max. No one ever said, “I wish that speech was longer.”
Personality contrasts are gold. Maybe your daughter’s partner is a data analyst, baffled by your daughter’s chaotic sock drawer. Or maybe she’s a schoolteacher with a habit of losing her own homework.
Call out these contrasts. They’re funny because they’re real.
Instead of stringing together random stories, find a theme.
It helps you shape the speech and makes it feel polished.
We’ve collected some of the best mother of the bride speeches from around the web. Warning: they may cause happy tears. (And yes, we’re always here to help make yours just as unforgettable.)
Even if your relationship with your daughter’s partner started off rocky, a wedding speech isn’t the time to mention it. No teasing that risks sounding like tension.
Most jokes online are tired and overused. Instead, lean into your lived experience. That’s where the gold is.
That said, if you do need help structuring your material, our Mother of the Bride Speech Template helps you turn real-life stories into speech gold.
They’re fine for the dinner table – not the wedding mic.
Instead, create stories that set the scene for everyone. If your daughter has always been a bit dramatic, tell the story of her performing Mariah Carey in the frozen aisle at Sainsbury’s.
Your opening lines set the tone. Choose warmth, not cheese. Start with a charming anecdote or unexpected truth.
“This is the girl who once wore ski goggles to school because she was worried about eye infections. That same girl is now wearing Dior and walking down the aisle.”
It’s quirky. It’s her. It works.
Don’t dump all your jokes at the start. Pepper your speech with wit throughout.
“She once told me she’d never marry until someone matched her love of salted crisps and Scandinavian murder dramas. So welcome to the family, Henrik.”
These lines give your speech life – and keep your audience smiling.
The best speeches loop back to an earlier story or joke. It gives your speech a neat finish.
“So, yes – the little girl who once tried to brush the cat’s teeth with glitter glue… is now a married woman. I couldn’t be prouder.”
It’s tempting to toast early, but prosecco can mess with your nerves. Stick to water until after your speech.
Smiling relaxes you and your audience. Use facial expressions, look up, and don’t be afraid to react to your own jokes.
Wait for the laughter. Enjoy it. Then continue. And yes, laugh with the audience – it’s infectious.
Interact with guests if you feel confident. Nod at your mum as you say: “She gets her stubborn streak from your side, obviously.”
Speechy has worked with hundreds of brilliant mums to create meaningful, memorable speeches.
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Humour is your secret weapon. Use it well. Focus on the personal. Embrace the quirky. And above all, speak from the heart.
You don’t need to be a stand-up comic. You just need to be a proud, funny, honest mum.
That’s more than enough.
The Speechy team are TV-trained scriptwriters/comedians by trade & we’ve helped 1,000s of speakers around the world deliver their dream speech.
Our advice has been quoted everywhere from The New York Times to Grazia and from Forbes to The Observer. Our founder has also featured on the BBC Sounds’ Best Men podcast with Jason Manford and written ‘The Modern Couple’s Guide to Wedding Speeches’, published by Little, Brown.
